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sodamnlost posted 5/9/2013 09:15 AM

A few weeks ago, a friend of mine became a BS. Yesterday she learned her WH has been having an A with her best friend her ENTIRE marriage. She is Still Friends with this woman sonshe wont be alone.

Friday she learned Her sister and her WH had a 3 year long A. He left her on Dday for his newest girlfriend (NOT her sister or her friend). She is desperate to get him back. I have told her about SI and about the 180 but she just wants him home. Any suggestions on how to help her? I know I can't make her respect herself or see she deserves better but feel so helpless.

BaldwinBeauty59 posted 5/9/2013 09:28 AM

Any suggestions on how to help her? I know I can't make her respect herself or see she deserves better but feel so helpless.

She has to want to help herself first and sounds like that is not what she wants. It is unfortunate for her. Will she go to IC? She needs to know why she wants a man that continually disrepects her and she allows it. Maybe she is obsessed with him instead of being in love with him. Sounds like her friends and family are toxic and she needs to stay far, far away from them. I feel for her and you but she has to want to make her life better not worse.

NeverAgain2013 posted 5/9/2013 13:38 PM

This poor woman needs serious professional help. She's been dealt so many hideously devastating blows that she can't be in her right mind if she still wants him after this atrocious behavior.

I'm horrified to hear her best friend AND her sister did this to her, as well.

I hope she's able to get the help she needs.

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