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User Topic: I'm Just Sayin....
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 6022 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Word!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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tired girl
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

+1


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 5155 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8181 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Truer words have rarely been spoken.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 9007 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
OktoberMest
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Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Deny, Deny, Deny - sounds just like my mum :(


Me: FWW (35) Growing up at last.
LonelyHusband: BH (41)
Dday 1: 29/Oct/11; Dday 2:15/Nov/11; last TT 15/Mar/12
In R...working my arse off.
When you're struggling with commitment to your marriage, just imagine what it's like to be a penguin.

Posts: 558 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: UK
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YEP. I spent most of my life denying my mistakes...and ducking, dodging, deflecting, and minimizing. Shit didn't get fixed until I stopped.


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

We remarried in 2014.


Posts: 2315 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My sister is like this. It's incredibly frustrating, which is why I limit my contact with her.


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 6022 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, May 10th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep. Wise word.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 3918 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
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