I have mentioned a few days ago that my anger has transferred from the other woman to the OW mother. The ow was 22 years old and pregnant. The OW introduced her mother to my husband (her mom knew he was married) and my husband introduced her mom to a friend of his from work. They all hung out together and drank,smoked ( my husband doesn't smoke but the others do) and screwed. If you are a mom, please tell me.. Could you imagine hanging out with your child who is pregnant with your grandchild while she is screwing some married guy? ( who is not the father BTW)Would you then ask your child if she can set you up with one of his friends?
They all hung out at the friendís house and , I guess, screwed each other. How trashy can you get? Not to mention endangering the baby. I have no idea how my husband could get involved with these types of people! He has always insisted that I take good care of myself when I was pregnant. How could he watch a young girl drink and smoke while pregnant when he wouldn't even let me in the baby's room when it was getting painted.
I guess I am starting to feel a little sorry for the girl since her own mother condoned and participated in this type of behavior with her and watched a married man obviously lie and manipulate her and didn't seem to care.
I actually wrote a letter to the mom, but I have not sent it. Would this be a bad idea? I imagine that you are all going to say it is a bad idea, but gosh I just feel like I need to confront both of them. This behavior is so sick! Maybe not in a mean way, but just in a what were you thinking kind of way. I mean maybe if she hears from me, she will think about how destructive this behavior is.
Okay, go ahead and shoot me down. I know what you will all say..Focus on my marriage and husband. My happiness is the best revenge. But I doubt they even know if I am happy or not.
Gosh what about the baby! The OW already lost her first two children when she was arrested for meth. Funny, they let her keep the baby after it was born.
BTW, my husband is doing everything and anything to repair the damage done to our marriage. The only things that he has not done, that I want him to do is to get the car back that he gave her and come with me to confront her. I might even give up the car if it helps her take care of the baby if I knew there was some remorse involved on her part.