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User Topic: I lost my Mom today
Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My mother passed away today, on Mother's Day. She was 89. It wasn't completely unexpected, but still so terribly hard.


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2498 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Too_Trusting)))) I am so sorry. No matter how old we are, no matter how old our mothers are, they are and always will be our mothers and our soft place to fall. The one person who will always love us unconditionally, the one person who has loved us from the day we were born (if not before). I am so very sorry for your loss.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 10087 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
bbee
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Too_Trusting))))

I am so sorry for your loss.

[This message edited by bbee at 12:34 PM, May 12th (Sunday)]


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6657 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
okaynow
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. (((Too_Trusting)))


Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.

Posts: 2434 | Registered: Mar 2007
okaynow
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(double post)

[This message edited by okaynow at 12:39 PM, May 12th (Sunday)]


Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.

Posts: 2434 | Registered: Mar 2007
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TooTrusting)))

I'm very sorry for your loss.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38977 | Registered: Sep 2007
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((TT)))))) I am so very sorry. Sending you comfort.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss. No matter how old or "not unexpected" it is, it's always hard. Even when we feel they are no longer in pain, it's still hard when it happens. (((Too_Trusting)))


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2588 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Going_Under
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Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Too Trusting)))

I am so sorry for your loss.


BS 42 (Me)
FWH 45
M 23 years
Three Children ages 20, 17, and 8
D-Day 08/10/2004, 7-Year LTA that ended 4 months before D-Day.

Evil never thinks it's evil, it always has a really good reason. ~ Joan of Arcadia, TV Series


Posts: 4558 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: Pacific Northwest
looking forward
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am very sorry for your loss, Too_Trusting, especially today. But think of the wonderful memories you have of her, and, from now on, every Mother's Day will be extra special for you.
~ lf


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2862 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((Too_Trusting)))))))))

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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so, so sorry.
{{{TooTrusting}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8252 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss.

(((Too_Trusting and family)))


FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry for your loss.

(((Too_Trusting and family)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10758 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((TT)))))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Too_Trusting))) I'm so sorry!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24750 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Too Trusting))

I'm sorry.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7866 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
cass
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Too -Trusting)))

I am so very sorry for your loss. Those of us who have lost our own mothers know your deep pain and are thinking of you today.

[This message edited by cass at 3:32 PM, May 12th (Sunday)]


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.

(((too_trusting)))


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Too_Trusting)))

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