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 macakipa (original poster member #33735) posted at 1:16 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

Some of you may remember the butcher from my grocery store that followed me around the store a few months back and hit on me with bad one liners. You know the one I gave my cell number to because I had no clue how to handle this after 31 years with the same man...

Well, I received two texts from him today:

HAPPY Mothers DAY

and

So are U still F**ckN SeXY

Well, yeah, I am for a 47 year old divorced mom of four.

crickets

M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

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phmh ( member #34146) posted at 1:40 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

Creep. Did you change grocery stores?

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:23 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

The hell?!?

Does that kind of crap actually WORK on some people?

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:11 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

Wow. He is so smooth. I can't believe he hasn't been snatched up yet.

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 3:28 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

Seriously, freaking creep. Do you still go there?

[This message edited by wildbananas at 9:28 PM, May 12th (Sunday)]

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 3:32 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

OMG, maybe he is the brother of the tomato man!!!!

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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GreatRoleModel ( member #36809) posted at 3:52 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

Please stop Chyrsalis, I am going to pee in my pants.

BS (me)
XNPDWS
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!
“If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane.”
― Robert Frost

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PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 3:59 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

First of all, why would any man seriously think a woman would respond favorably to that load of shit???

Second, who is the tomato man??

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...

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Heavy Sigh ( member #34243) posted at 4:10 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

It's wrong of me, but I'm wary of butchers. I'm vegetarian so, you can see my bias. Also, I picture the image from the TV show Dexter, wearing that butcher's apron, get the chills, and suddenly think that compared to serial killers, habitual cheaters and sex addicts begin to look like real catches.

[This message edited by Heavy Sigh at 10:12 PM, May 12th (Sunday)]

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 macakipa (original poster member #33735) posted at 1:13 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

Still shaking my head...

I no longer go to that grocery store. I go to one further away but it is worth it not having to look over my shoulder when reaching for Triscuits.

Second, who is the tomato man??

PurpleRose, I see you found the tomato man thread

M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

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Bebba1171 ( member #33857) posted at 5:32 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

I remember that dude. What a goofball.

On another note, my daughter will be working in Chicago.

She needs to get an account with a national bank.

One of her friends mentioned Chase.

I told her about your X, so now she will go with US Bank!

Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

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BrokenSpirit50 ( member #34485) posted at 6:27 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

Macakipa... OMG! Seriously, does he think that is going to draw you in.....He may as well texted you...would you like to try my meat? Gosh I'm sorry I could not resist. Oye

Married 32 years, together for 40
DDay Dec. 17, 2011
No R, D June 21, 2012

Me BS 58
Him WH 59

Now with WBF 3 yrs. DD#2 June 5, 2018

Truth is like surgery, it hurts but heals. A Lie is like a painkiller. It gives instant relief but has si

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nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 9:08 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

What a catch he is!

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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 macakipa (original poster member #33735) posted at 12:57 AM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013

I told her about your X, so now she will go with US Bank!

Oh yeah!

He may as well texted you...would you like to try my meat?

M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 11:54 AM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013

Is it weird that I still think he's a better catch than the man I did marry.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 1:33 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013

You should have replied...

"My parole officer thinks so!"

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 7:34 AM, May 14th (Tuesday)]

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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Mousse242 ( member #6330) posted at 6:22 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013

I would tell him to stop texting you. That is creepy beyond words.

Can you block his number?

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