Its not just time its what you do with that time too.
I read a quote today:
The harder you work the harder it is to surrender - Vince Lombardi
Its a hard habit to break. Detaching is hard work. Acceptance is agony. Surrender took most of my energy for a very long time. I've found a deep well of strength in surrendering.
Times like these I needed someone to hold me while I cried my eyes out. Let it out friend. I held it together for my girls and for my friends/family but I also gave myself lots of time to cry and grieve.
If you're OK your daughter will be OK. She needs you to be OK. You need you to be OK.
You're going to be OK. You will get through this.