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User Topic: Enmeshed families and inner child
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need some guidance. What were books and/or resources that you used for dealing with enmeshed families and inner child stuff?

Overwhelmed can't describe the situation. This has to stop. I need to build up my arsenal on how to deal with this. Kind of a double whammy right now.

Any insight would be greatly appreciated.

Anyone read: Emotional Incest Syndrome or Family Secrets: Path to Self-Acceptance and Reunion? Were they helpful?

[This message edited by Aubrie84 at 10:32 AM, May 13th (Monday)]


"You give me that bottom of the 9th, last at bat, tied game, grand slam, full of butterflies kind of feeling." - My Husband

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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badchoice
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have not read any books on the subjects per se, but have learned - worked on enmeshment from my CoDA work, and books. I don't remember which one, but I think all of Beatie's (sp?) books cover it to some extent.

Good luck Aubrie-


Me: fWH/BH 46

Separated transitioning to D


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll look into it. Thanks badchoice.


"You give me that bottom of the 9th, last at bat, tied game, grand slam, full of butterflies kind of feeling." - My Husband

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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thumbelina
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aubrie, I just finished reading "Facing Codependence" by Pia Mellody, which was recommended by my IC in dealing with the very issue you described. I cannot recommend it enough.

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you thumbelina. I'll look at that one too.


"You give me that bottom of the 9th, last at bat, tied game, grand slam, full of butterflies kind of feeling." - My Husband

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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