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User Topic: NC please, 140 texts later
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Member # 39219
Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dd was 7 days ago, she confessed she's remorseful, she told him its over and no more contact, she's wholly transparent she's not hiding these texts nor responding too them.

Instead we go through them together reading them... I think I'm ready to just delete them without reading, it makes me sick. This guy is absolutely crazy he fluctuates between furious that she's abandoned their "love" and regretting all the fighting they did that pushed her back into my arms and her "unhappiness"

This is more of a rant than anything though I hate the cell company for not letting us block #s

[This message edited by Hopefulguy at 11:04 AM, May 13th (Monday)]

D-day 5/7/13

Posts: 40 | Registered: May 2013
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry to hear this, sounds very painful.

What about changing her number? I know it's a hassle but it will stop him.

You may also want to consider a restraining order if he is threatening in anyway in these texts.

Him: FWS
Kids: 18 & 20
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

Posts: 13163 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In this case, I would, as yourself, text back that both of you are reading his texts, both of you expect him to go NC, that you are printing out his texts, and if they persist, you will be going to the PD to pursue a RO.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 9895 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
♂ 39219
Member # 39219
Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are in some family plan on the cell phone with some siblings who we don't really want to explain the situation too that control the account making for a very awkward conversation when they ask why. The plan ends next month though so well be dropping off it then rather then renewing.

Part of me is glad, I think seeing how crazy this guy is is helping to dispel some of the ideas she may till be holding about him. Though I am starting to despise the sound of that phone going off.

D-day 5/7/13

Posts: 40 | Registered: May 2013
♀ 39170
Member # 39170
Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, the sound of her phone might become a trigger for you...

I can't remember the program, but isn't there something like google answer, where the calls go directly to voicemail & you can listen or not as you wish? Might work for texts too. Maybe you should look into it?

Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner

Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
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