Yes. 8w S followed by 3m False R. Once we sold the house I wanted to S for a year. I wanted to follow through with D and separate everything.
I didn't want that M anymore. I thought doing this would give me a clean slate.
He finally set me free when I put an application in for a rental property. Told me I wasn't invested in R, I was just trying to punish him.
20 weeks after final S this 40 year old loser was ready to introduce his 24 year old office gopher/obviously prior OW to my almost 5 and 2.5 year olds as his GF. I didn't consider her a threat as I trusted her taste more than I trusted his fidelity.
False R was far worse than DD but in all honesty I think I needed it to let him go fully. He love bombed me the whole time, just as he did during the early 'good' years of our marriage.
Seeing the mask be constructed then slip off in such a short space of time allowed me to see exactly how he had manipulated me for so long. I saw exactly who he was.
It also illustrated how much I had lied to myself for so long. His skills of deception were no match for my own skills of self-deception.
There is no venom in True Remorse whether in R, S or D.