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User Topic: Court Update
scotslass
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well. We went to court this morning. Outcome, due to my lawyers counter suit we have been rescheduled for two weeks time.

Thanks to everyone for their best wishes.


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I wish they could have told you about the reschedule before you went, but hopefully the counter suit is worth it!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 1:36 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

good news :)


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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la433
♂ 38835
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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good!

Enough time to get stuff together so he can chew your X up.


"Arise and be all that you dreamed." ~Flyleaf

Posts: 136 | Registered: Mar 2013
scotslass
♀ 39204
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks again everyone.

When we were in front of the judge yesterday, my ex looked visibly shaken. Apparently in his homemade lawsuit (which only cost him $25) he did not have the correct legal affidavit. My fantastic lawyer spotted that immediately. Anyway when we counter-sued with correct legal documentation my ex was ashen.

My lawyer wanted him served after we had been sworn in, in front of our judge. His reasoning: that way my ex could not say he had not been served, and it saved money for me instead of having a constable have to do it. Also saves on time.

I have to say. In the three and half years since he moved out - this is the very first time that I felt empowered. I sued him! What a positive feeling it gave me.

I know the road ahead is going to be extremely tough - especially with the parental alienation that he has caused between my and my children. But I am doing this for them. I need to get them all on a normal, healthy track for the future.


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
la433
♂ 38835
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Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is such good news.

As far as the children go, they probably just don't really "get it" yet. They're old enough to understand that their father was unfaithful and has sexual addiction problems and alcohol problems. But they're probably not old enough to have been hurt by a relationship to understand this. That's ok. They just need to be told so it's been lodged in the back of their mind, so when something happens to them, the light in the back of their head goes off and then they "get it".

You ARE doing the right thing.

Keep it up!


"Arise and be all that you dreamed." ~Flyleaf

Posts: 136 | Registered: Mar 2013
scotslass
♀ 39204
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks la433

I love your tag line

"Arise and be all that you dreamed."

This reaffirms that I am doing the right thing.


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Empowerment feels awesome


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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