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Yakamishi posted 5/13/2013 16:17 PM

She left this morning.

I am sad.

TrustGone posted 5/13/2013 16:18 PM

I am so sorry. (((HUGS)))

still2suspicious posted 5/13/2013 16:34 PM

(((Yakiamishi)))

Can we help you in any way?

Feel what you feel.

You will be OK, whatever the outcome.

Yakamishi posted 5/13/2013 16:36 PM

I always thought we'd beat the odds. Seems unreal. Like DD almost.

Knowing posted 5/13/2013 16:40 PM

(((Yakamishi)))

Take very, very, very good care of yourself, please? She should not take any more space in your head right now. It's not too late for the 180. Eat, sleep, talk, feel, breathe... Take it one day at a time. It's all about you right now. Get your head screwed back on straight and get your strength back. You have really been through the wringer.

jjsr posted 5/13/2013 21:53 PM

I am sorry.

gonogo1 posted 5/13/2013 23:05 PM

So sorry. 180 now. Accept she hasn't got a good track record .She is not in R. Take care of you now and detach . NC-no new hurts .

Hurt2Deeply posted 5/14/2013 00:19 AM

I am so sorry too.

struggling3 posted 5/14/2013 12:28 PM

I am so very sorry. I got instant anxiety reading this. I hope you can take care of yourself and know that there are many people here to talk to.
((((Yakamishi)))

Getting to Happy posted 5/14/2013 13:11 PM

Your post brought tears to my eyes.

Please take care of you. At this point you have done all you can. Let the sadness wash over you.

Just know that better days are coming.

Keep posting. Let us share your pain. We get it. We are here and we care.

Hugs my friend.

Jrazz posted 5/14/2013 13:13 PM

(((Yakamishi)))

More of a demotion.

You're gonna be ok. Sending hugs and strength.

JanaGreen posted 5/14/2013 14:12 PM

I'm so sorry.

numb&dumb posted 5/14/2013 15:13 PM

I'm sorry man.

still2suspicious posted 5/14/2013 15:39 PM

How are you today?

Yakamishi posted 5/14/2013 20:16 PM

I'm surprisingly a little detached. t first I was against it, and angry. Then I felt very sad.Now I'm beginning to question what I truly want.

I still hurt. And I get upset when family calls. But I'm begging to think it's not a bad idea to take a breather. Sort of pull back to get the full picture.

I truly appreciate the support. No one understands the way the folks here do.