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Yakamishi (original poster member #38230) posted at 10:17 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2013
She left this morning.
I am sad. 
Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 10:18 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2013
I am so sorry. (((HUGS)))
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 10:34 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2013
(((Yakiamishi)))
Can we help you in any way?
Feel what you feel.
You will be OK, whatever the outcome.
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
Yakamishi (original poster member #38230) posted at 10:36 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2013
I always thought we'd beat the odds. Seems unreal. Like DD almost.
Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life
Knowing ( member #37044) posted at 10:40 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2013
(((Yakamishi)))
Take very, very, very good care of yourself, please? She should not take any more space in your head right now. It's not too late for the 180. Eat, sleep, talk, feel, breathe... Take it one day at a time. It's all about you right now. Get your head screwed back on straight and get your strength back. You have really been through the wringer.
BW, R last 4 years of marriage out of 15... FINALLY, HAPPILY DIVORCING!
We are in R.
jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 3:53 AM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.
gonogo1 ( member #25518) posted at 5:05 AM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
So sorry. 180 now. Accept she hasn't got a good track record .She is not in R. Take care of you now and detach . NC-no new hurts .
Copied from HUFI-PUFI
Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
Hurt2Deeply ( member #38317) posted at 6:19 AM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
Me BS 57
Him FWH 60
M 35 years
3 Adult kids
R
struggling3 ( member #34671) posted at 6:28 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
I am so very sorry. I got instant anxiety reading this. I hope you can take care of yourself and know that there are many people here to talk to.
((((Yakamishi)))
Me - BS 58
H - WS 60/very remorseful and supportive
discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic
Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 7:11 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
Your post brought tears to my eyes.
Please take care of you. At this point you have done all you can. Let the sadness wash over you.
Just know that better days are coming.
Keep posting. Let us share your pain. We get it. We are here and we care.
Hugs my friend.
WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:13 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
(((Yakamishi))) 
More of a demotion.
You're gonna be ok. Sending hugs and strength.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 8:12 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
I'm so sorry.
numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 9:13 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.
Bring it, life. I am ready for you.
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 9:39 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
Yakamishi (original poster member #38230) posted at 2:16 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013
I'm surprisingly a little detached. t first I was against it, and angry. Then I felt very sad.Now I'm beginning to question what I truly want.
I still hurt. And I get upset when family calls. But I'm begging to think it's not a bad idea to take a breather. Sort of pull back to get the full picture.
I truly appreciate the support. No one understands the way the folks here do.
Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life
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