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meplustwo posted 5/13/2013 18:25 PM

So, we are reconciling. Just beginning so its slow goin'. Today I just feel like I don't know if I really want to spend the rest of my life with him. He is depressed. He suffers from migraines and is incapacitated. I keep having thoughts of them together and his emails telling her the things I would love to hear from him like "you looked so hot today" and "I'm so jealous that other people get to see you all day."
I love him. I want an intact family. I think he can be a great husband. I just want to feel wanted, loved, adored and right now, I don't.
Anyone else reconciling and having days where they wonder if all this is worth it?

catlover50 posted 5/13/2013 21:02 PM

Yep, completely normal. They don't call it a roller coaster for nothing!

Hang in there! Hugs!!

Tripletrouble posted 5/13/2013 21:15 PM

Yes! One day will be great and the next day I never want to see him again.

gonogo1 posted 5/13/2013 23:15 PM

I am raising my hand . One day I love him and in a matter of hours I want to never see his face again . Go figure

betraydtwice posted 5/29/2013 23:55 PM

So true. Everyday is different. Today I'm in the why bother phase. Wondering if I am wasting my time and if I love him at all anymore. Don't know....wish it was clearer

TrustGone posted 5/30/2013 00:16 AM

Yes. We all feel like that at times. It is completely normal to feel this way. Hang in there, tomorrow is a new day and who knows where you will be then. Sorry, I know it sucks.

sodamnlost posted 5/30/2013 01:07 AM

I wonder it pretty much every day :-(

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