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Tripletrouble posted 5/13/2013 18:31 PM

So my WH was on AFF sexting with countless local women. The humiliation is so burning that I look at the ground when I'm in public because I feel like the whole world knows and is laughing at what an idiot I am- first for not knowing, then for trying to R. Logically it seems ridiculous but it's what I feel. And I can't even tell anyone what I'm going through because I would never violate the privacy of my teenagers like that. So thank god for this board and all the posters, you have kept me sane.

PurpleBirch posted 5/13/2013 18:46 PM

I know how you feel. My WH got his military posting today. He (and everyone he told) is glad he's staying in the same town because I have a job here. What he doesn't realize is that I wasn't planning on fucking up my career by joining his lying piece o shit ass.

I haven't posted too much, but I like knowing I can say stuff like that ^^ and no one will judge me.

Tripletrouble posted 5/13/2013 19:16 PM

Wow Purple we are back to back member #'s and my d day was 4/22. Sorry to share such an unfortunate bond with you.

Hearthache again posted 5/13/2013 22:56 PM

You have nothing to feel ashamed about. You did nothing wrong but trust the person you are in a relationship with.

I also felt this way. I always felt like people were judging me for my H actions. You get over it after a while.

I would recommend IC since you have not support outside of this board. This place is a awesome but sometimes we need one on one contact to get us through the rough times.