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dreamlife posted 5/13/2013 21:04 PM

I have not received a Discovery Q. but my atty has sent it off to STBX last week. He has a month to respond.

Is it possible that there won't be any Discovery Q. sent to me?

Anyone else go through this?
Thanks.

Nature_Girl posted 5/13/2013 21:44 PM

No discovery was asked of me. No questions, nothing like that. I offered up all financials early on in the process and again here at the end. We STILL have not received all of STBX's financials, and we've already had our divorce trial!

dreamlife posted 5/13/2013 22:02 PM

OMG ~ this is unbelievable!
He was hiding everything...& he continues to in different ways.
My gut is screaming b/c I just know this NPD is going to pull something tricky & BAD.

***I Know This***

Nature_Girl posted 5/13/2013 23:54 PM

Yes, mine hid a lot of stuff, too. If you have the money for a forensic accountant, go for it. Assuming you think he's hiding anything financially. Mine was hiding lots of stuff, he still is. I found lots of hidden things on my own. If I had a forensic accountant I bet there would be a ton more to discover.

Ashland13 posted 5/14/2013 09:44 AM

Yep, that's happening here, too. It was a trick just to figure out where to serv Perv and now they are dillydallying over the financial stuff.

I did what I could ahead of time and that way it's as done as I can get it and also looks really good to be organized.

No, I haven't been asked for discovery questions either, but we're just starting out.

STBXH and his L are calling this "mutual" and suddenly the "we" word is popping out, so I did put my foot down and said, "this is not a WE thing. I wanted M." Of course no reply came, but all during M, it was "Mine and yours", down to the paper towels. Any ideas on this or is it just words that don't need to be dissected?

And, good luck, everybody.

Jayne Doe posted 5/14/2013 10:56 AM

Mine was going thru money like water!

They were just too stupid to know that this was ALL going to come out in the end.

You will only get a discovery if his attorney requests it, and since he just had to tell all of his secrets - I bet you have one on the way, if for nothing else than payback.

Dawn58 posted 5/14/2013 11:16 AM

I just finished filling out my discovery. The lying, cheating pig had to hire a forensic accountant since he kept all the financials away from me. Of course, the forensic accountant is asking him to clarify the questions he has on the financials and I don't believe that the lying pig will be honest with him, so I may ask my attorney's to subpoena all third parties involved to get the information. I do not trust him.

dreamlife posted 5/15/2013 00:53 AM

My atty said Discovery is very expensive.
I never worked during our M and never hid anything.
I think STBX is too cheap to pay more for any "Discovery".

woundedby2 posted 5/15/2013 01:04 AM

I bet you have one on the way, if for nothing else than payback.

^^^this

Exactly what happened to me. It is a lot of work, and it is very expensive. I hope you don't get hit with a ridiculous discovery request.