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User Topic: My Father died yesterday
dameia
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yesterday, on mothers day, my father died.

Please keep him in your prayers.

He was a kind and gentle man and he will be truly missed.


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.


Posts: 1198 | Registered: Jul 2012
BaxtersBFF
♂ 26859
Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((dameia)))


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6103 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
gonnabe2016
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Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.
{{{dameia}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8181 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwww, sweetie, I'm so sorry.

(((((((((dameia)))))))))


Posts: 11791 | Registered: Mar 2008
SweetheartVixen
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Member # 4956
Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im so sorry.


BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14


Posts: 3104 | Registered: Jul 2004 | From: somewhere over the rainbow
h0peless
♂ 36697
Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((dameia)))

Posts: 1802 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
okaynow
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Member # 13813
Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((dameia))) You and your dad are in my prayers.


Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.

Posts: 2432 | Registered: Mar 2007
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My condolences. You and your dad are in my prayers.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5528 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((dameia)))

I'm so sorry.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7842 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 11:53 PM, May 13th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very sorry for your loss.


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2140 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 6:09 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry for your loss.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38639 | Registered: Sep 2007
TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 6:23 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss. (((HUGS)))


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:09 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry, dameia. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts. (((((hugs)))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26145 | Registered: Aug 2011
LA44
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for your loss Dameia.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry for your loss ((((dameia)))



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so very sorry for your loss. My father died on Mother's day in 1987.

((((dameia))))


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


Posts: 1793 | Registered: Feb 2009
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:08 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very sorry for your loss.

You are in my prayers.


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21098 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((dameia)))

I'm so sorry for your loss.


Posts: 36429 | Registered: Mar 2011
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((HUGS)))

I'm so sorry for your loss.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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