Well today he tells me the plans have changed. No other people are going just us and he booked a hotel(1 room) that will board horses. HELL NO !! I just knew he was going to try something ! I knew it !
I've made it clear and told him directly, it's a friendship and won't be anything more than that.EVER ! I am not sleeping with him or anyone for just sex. Not happening, my emotions can't handle that since divorce and I not interested in ONS or FWB.
He brought flowers today! HELL NO ! Not happening. He pissed me off and I told him not to come to my house again.
How dare him.
Now I will have to do it myself because I really wanted to ride.
I knew in my gut he wasn't going to accept that I want just friendship and a riding partner. Gma's tuner is getting better. Two years ago, I would have went and been blindsided. I did good !
He really doesn't want to hear what I have to say right now. Get a clue ! Sent both calls to VM.
"And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be."
- Sarah McMane
Especially if you told him you weren't interested in just a FWB or ONS, as his actions seem to indicate that he'd want an actual relationship, so he may have thought he was listening to your words as well.
I have found that pretty much any single, straight guy that's within 5 years younger or 20 years older than me thinks I'm interested in them just because I'm a nice person. I've had to be very careful with my actions around them to not give off the wrong impression.
Hope you enjoy your ride, even if the company is different that you originally anticipated!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
romantic horseback ride along the beach
Not sure how a group ride that included gma and neighbor guy is 'romantic', but maybe that's just me?
Too bad gma, but good tuning
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Wine nights at your house, romantic horseback ride along the beach
The ride on the beach was again with a group of horse riders for the day. They cancelled and he took upon himself to assume an over night would be good.
He had asked me out several times but I refused. I told him I wasn't interested in anything romantic. He's a great guy, very good looking. and fun but he crossed my boundaries that he was fully aware of.
I would NEVER be so arrogant as to book a single hotel room for someone and then just tell them this is what I did. It's obvious what he was looking for.
So another neighbor couple ride with handicap kids and their families once a month and their next ride is at the beach. I'm booked to go in June or July! WooHoo.
[This message edited by gma56 at 10:04 AM, May 15th (Wednesday)]