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User Topic: well, that was fast
♀ 39082
Member # 39082
Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So out R is an R no more. He has still been talking to the OW. Like a lot. Back to NC and 180 for me. Boooo.

Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Maine
♂ 37455
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry that it didn't last. Not meant to be snarky, but in a way it's good that he's showing you who he really is so you can deal with it appropriately.


BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 5531 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry. I'm with 5454, though, if it's going to happen, the sooner the better.

You WILL heal, though.

fBH (me) - 66 on d-day, Married 43, together 45 on d-day, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
Most of us know only our own experience. That's not enough data to support a general rule that D, or R, is right in every sitch.

Posts: 16789 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
♂ 38230
Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exactly what happened to me. Do not believe. Keep digging.

Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
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