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meplustwo (original poster member #39082) posted at 10:37 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
So out R is an R no more. He has still been talking to the OW. Like a lot. Back to NC and 180 for me. Boooo.
Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 10:40 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
So sorry that it didn't last. Not meant to be snarky, but in a way it's good that he's showing you who he really is so you can deal with it appropriately.
Strength
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:58 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
I'm sorry. I'm with 5454, though, if it's going to happen, the sooner the better.
You WILL heal, though.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Yakamishi ( member #38230) posted at 2:11 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013
Exactly what happened to me. Do not believe. Keep digging.
Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life
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