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User Topic: well, that was fast
♀ 39082
Member # 39082
Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So out R is an R no more. He has still been talking to the OW. Like a lot. Back to NC and 180 for me. Boooo.

Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Maine
♂ 37455
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry that it didn't last. Not meant to be snarky, but in a way it's good that he's showing you who he really is so you can deal with it appropriately.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 21(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3915 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry. I'm with 5454, though, if it's going to happen, the sooner the better.

You WILL heal, though.

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 12014 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
♂ 38230
Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exactly what happened to me. Do not believe. Keep digging.

Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 237 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
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