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Topic: well, that was fast

meplustwo
♀ 39082
Member # 39082

Posted: 4:37 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013

So out R is an R no more. He has still been talking to the OW. Like a lot. Back to NC and 180 for me. Boooo.

Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Maine

5454real
♂ 37455
Member # 37455

Posted: 4:40 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013

So sorry that it didn't last. Not meant to be snarky, but in a way it's good that he's showing you who he really is so you can deal with it appropriately.

Strength

BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 5438 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest

sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240

Posted: 4:58 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013

I'm sorry. I'm with 5454, though, if it's going to happen, the sooner the better.

You WILL heal, though.

As of September, 2017 -
fBH (me) - 70+, fWW, Married 50, together 50+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 16300 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois

Yakamishi
♂ 38230
Member # 38230

Posted: 8:11 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013

Exactly what happened to me. Do not believe. Keep digging.

Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts

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