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User Topic: Good Grief
Stangfreak
♀ 35157
Member # 35157
Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH, who has posted about wanting to be with me has been in contact with OW again. She has been texting me and he told her about all of my threads on Surviving Infidelity and provides her with a link. I will be laying low for the divorce process because my thoughts and emotions are none of her business. I will also be filing for divorce. Thank you for all of your love and support through this trying time. I will miss you all.


"Some glad morning when this life is o'er, I'll fly away.
To a home on God's celestial shore, I'll fly away.
I'll fly away, oh glory, I'll fly away (IN THE MORNING!)
When I die, hallelujah by and by, I'll fly away!"

Posts: 85 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Alabama
childofcheater
♀ 33887
Member # 33887
Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry Stang!!! FTG!


Me: 37 yo, him 36
Married 14 years together 18
3 kids: DD10, DD7, DS4
DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworker
Status: in R, work in progress

Posts: 316 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: East Coast
PurpleBirch
♀ 39170
Member # 39170
Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow that bites. Thoughts and prayers are with you.


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner


Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
Chefj9
♀ 38604
Member # 38604
Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Hugs)))) so sorry


ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 25, 15, 15 and 12
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

Posts: 472 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Texas
Getting to Happy
♀ 35200
Member # 35200
Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FTG!!! FTB!!!

Oh Stang. I am so sorry.

Stay strong.

Sending you light and strength.


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1145 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
BaldwinBeauty59
♀ 35507
Member # 35507
Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, May 14th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DAMN!!! This is one of those times I wish we weren't anonymous. I would love to fire off an email to both those POS assholes and tell them how fucked up and disgusting they are. What a total waste of space those two losers are. You deserve better than that sorry ass man you call husband. Very soon you will realize what a lucky escape you had by divorcing his sorry pathetic ass. You have nowhere to go but up from here so enjoy your new freedom.


Me - BW (53)
Him - WH (56)
OW - skanky whore coworker
Married 33 years
DDay1 8/10/11
DDay2 8/15/11
DDay3 8/28/11
2 grown children
Status - in R

Posts: 978 | Registered: May 2012
avicarswife
♀ 35799
Member # 35799
Default  Posted: 4:34 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Honey I am so sorry - what a POS - you deserve so very much better.


What sort of people do that kind of thing?? I can't imagine people being so narcissistic that they could even read about the pain and destruction their sicko fantasy has caused. Wow, she must be a real nasty piece of work!

PM us when you want to chat.


BS: 47 (me)
WH: 51
Married 26 yrs, 3 kids (16-24)
D-Days 2012: 23 - 24 May + TT
D-Day 2013: 12 Apr OW#3
mOW #1 EA yrs PA Feb 2009-end 2011
mOW #2 EA months PA 4 months 2010
OW #3 PA single time 2010
Status: Maybe 'R'

Posts: 730 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: "down-under"
SoVerySadNow
♀ 36711
Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Stangfreak))))
Even if I was a POS OW, like your WH's whore, I hope to God I'd have the bit of intelligence it would take to see WH for the disordered unfaithful idiot that he is and be terrified. There is zero chance they will make it. She will know that he will lie and cheat. How fun their relationship will be with that constantly between them.
They deserve everything bad- and they will get everything bad in time.
Sad pathetic souless black holes that they are, it's a sure bet.

ETA that I hope Jack317 has her read his posts too. Whore should ave the whole story, but then he is probably saying that he had to write that stuff. Cheater's handbook material.

[This message edited by SoVerySadNow at 8:23 AM, May 15th (Wednesday)]


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
Dark Inertia
30727
Member # 30727
Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now that is pretty fuuucked up. Your husband and the Ow are assholes.


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1334 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
5454real
♂ 37455
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry this has occurred. Nothing can keep you from reading though. On that note, unless he has your password, PM may be an option to keep in touch.

Anyone who would do such a thing must be a complete LOSER. Sleep at night must be fun as they contemplate how much morality means. Someone dumb enough to be with a guy like that? Wow, look at what he's willing to do to someone he took vows with. Really think you'll be treated better? Idiot.

Strength


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3174 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
k94ever
♀ 11176
Member # 11176
Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow....how incredibly wrong that is.

Lurk with us. And know that we don't forget.

{{{hugs}}}

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6614 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
sinsof thefather
♀ 29295
Member # 29295
Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a pair of sickos - him especially.


Stang do yourself a favour and get as far away from that cruel weirdo as fast as you can.


(((hugs)))


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1894 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
JanaGreen
♀ 29341
Member # 29341
Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a fucking JERK. I'm so sorry.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

Posts: 6937 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
confused615
♀ 30826
Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This has happened to other BS's here on SI. It's despicable. It's cruel. That they are laughing at your posts,your pain,that they are responsible for.

Only a truly broken,evil person would find amusement in another's pain.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7916 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
meplusfour
♀ 38958
Member # 38958
Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your thoughts and insight will be missed. Stay strong.


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 392 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
krisdev
♀ 22090
Member # 22090
Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMFG, seriously? Geesh so they don't want to take ownership for what they did? Ok, so I'm guessing she contacted you because she thought this shit was funny? OMG. What assholes! I'm sorry that you're going through this.


He taught me so much, self worth.

Posts: 50 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: krisdev
mysticpenguin
♀ 38839
Member # 38839
Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What Baldwin said!!!!

On a serious note -- what an asshole. Karma is a bitch!


Betrayed

Posts: 306 | Registered: Mar 2013
purplebreeze
♀ 31611
Member # 31611
Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry that a place that gives such healing and peace is tainted with the knowledge that they are watching what you say.
Please continue to lurk (they can't follow that) and message some of the wonderful people that help so much. Remember, we are here rooting for you. Good Luck.


me 64
WH 66
married 44 years
DD Jan 16 2011

Posts: 357 | Registered: Mar 2011
hopefulmother
♀ 38790
Member # 38790
Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry Strangfreak...good luck with the D. Keep us posted later when the dust settles. We will miss you.

Well...if he did all that, then I guess she knows your posts....

Well-you disgusting OW...Strangfreak has more dignity and self-worth in her pinky finger than you have in your whole body. Good luck being happy with her ex...We all know you will constantly be worried about whether he will cheat on you too.

At least Strangfreak can look at herself in the mirror and hold her head up high.


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends for 20yrs dating since 2000
Married 10yrs with 2 toddlers
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.

Posts: 953 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: PA
Stangfreak
♀ 35157
Member # 35157
Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, May 15th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have asked her not to contact me and she continues to do so. It is interfering with my work and home life. Please advise me in my course if action.


"Some glad morning when this life is o'er, I'll fly away.
To a home on God's celestial shore, I'll fly away.
I'll fly away, oh glory, I'll fly away (IN THE MORNING!)
When I die, hallelujah by and by, I'll fly away!"

Posts: 85 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Alabama
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