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 jrc1963 (original poster member #26531) posted at 2:42 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013

I lost a friend... I hate when MAN takes precedence over FRIEND...

Oh well... He's the newest "toy"... it will wear off...

I'm not sure I'll be waiting to be friends when she gets done playing with him...

Ok.. vent over.

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peridot ( member #18334) posted at 2:52 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013

I had a friend who did the same thing. She was also very codependent. I eventually just moved on when I had enough. I'm sorry this is happening to you.

I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

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 jrc1963 (original poster member #26531) posted at 3:16 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013

Thanks... It's not my first time at this rodeo... It's just getting very tiresome.

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Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 7:06 PM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013

This is happened to DD and myself, too. Growing up it would happen when friends met boys and merged into couples. Then I did it and still get dinged by a friend who did the same thing.

There is a friend at DDs school who bounces between other kids and DD will get dumped, but what I learned is that it's the parent. This is the type of person who seeks people for their resources, not so much for real friendship and that helped to learn.

I don't let us get too attached really to anyone now and it really helps, but still hurt can come.

I'm really sorry, JRC. We get to the end of our rope at times, don't we?

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A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

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 jrc1963 (original poster member #26531) posted at 8:04 PM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013

I don't think she is a nice person in general. She is a bully. Today she was picking on a co-worker who hasn't said or done anything to her.

I will be distancing myself from her. She is not nice.

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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