Thanks everyone. You saved me from making a huge mistake!!
I met her and her boyfriend. H, kids and I helped them move. I agree, I don't want them to think I'm crazy. No doubt she will tell her bf.
Yes, he was irritated, but saying things like oh, they (her bf and their other friends) probably told her to call me. H also said they don't know he's not driniking anymore.
But, I'm going to check phone bill to see just how much H and her talked...
It just seemed shady, if that's his friend, the girl who called, why didn't he talk to her like a friend, instead of being irritated?? That's my question. He wasn't nice to her.
My whole body, mind, and heart are on code red alert!!!!!
Luckily I don't have to worry about internet stuff with him. He doesn't have a fb, doesn't know how to email, etc.
Wish me luck. Hopefully, I don't have another Dday...
I want so badly to contact HER bf and ask him if he knows she's calling my H or that she would call him all the time before Dday in November. I suspect an EA at the least. My H very personable, friendly, and likeable. Sadly, I would not be surprised if they slept together. It would just be another one...
[This message edited by libertyrocks at 11:56 AM, May 15th (Wednesday)]