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Divorce/Separation :
I am being pressed to death...

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 rumorhasit (original poster member #38943) posted at 1:44 AM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013

And every day a new stone is placed on my chest...

Caring for a two year old full time while he lives the life of the childless and sees him when it is convenient for him...

His mother, who I love, has stage four cancer...

He filed for custody of his daughter and wants to bring her around Mrs. Robinson....

He wants to (after two years) get a carseat for his car as if he is going anywhere with DS unsupervised...

He has threatened to file for partial custody of DS who he has never cared for alone...

Now I have to file for custody and its a damn race...

Its been a shitty week.

BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo

Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M

"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:50 AM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013

((((rumorhasit))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:06 AM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013

(((rumorhasit)))

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jackie89 ( member #38271) posted at 2:19 AM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013

I am sorry! Hang in there!

You will get through this too..

Lots of hugs! We are here to listen!

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 rumorhasit (original poster member #38943) posted at 4:03 AM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013

(((Everyone)))

Thank you for hugs!

I am terrified of filing for custody...

BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo

Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M

"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin

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Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 8:33 AM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013

(((rumorhasit and DS)))

I don't have any advice but I wanted to send you hugs.

Hang in there.

WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown

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