I am going to see two different counselors (a PhD and a PTSD counselor) on Friday. See if I can decide if I like one more than the other.
However, I don't know if I could do a group session at this stage of the game. There are enough horror stories on SI and they are all in text. I could not imagine trying to process visible anguish in peoples faces and hear the pain in their voices... I think that would be WAY to much for me right now.
I do applaud your efforts to look for some sort of rudder to assist you in the process. Might be time to toss this one aside and go look for another one, especially if you feel the boat you are on is taking down a river not to your liking.