So tonight I had to drive to DD's practice to drop off kid stuff to XH (since it's his kid night) because assclown 'forgot' to wait at school for me to meet there after work (mind you we had talked like 40 mins before...I got there 5 mins after him. He and kids are gone. I text, where are you? He's like I forgot. Um...ok?!This is its own vent because instead of meeting at school on our ways home, now I have to meet him later. Fine, whatever! Back to post bitching...)
So tonight I go in and the team mom mentions needing the play fees. Now XH's step-DD, H, is also on the team (why? not sure as she's into non-sport things but apparently the XH and wife decided 'the girls' should do this together, to bond I suppose). Back on track....so we agreed that we'd each pay half for our DD.
We're writing checks and XH tells the team mom he's paying all for step-DD and then half for our DD. I joked that if he could pay for all step-DD, he could do all for our DD too, ha ha.
He 'kids' back how, "Ha ha, I wish. *I* have to pay for all of H...you can do half for DD". It's all in jest, but it did kinda piss me off and hurt a little too (which is dumb, I know).
I am ONE parent of 2 kids who makes like nothing, nothing meaning that I know it's at least 1/5 of what he and wife made 5 yrs ago, so they have to be making more now.
Like it just jerked me off that I was supposed to jokingly 'feel bad' that he/they have to pay for all of step-DD. Are you fucking kidding me?!
Thanks for letting me spout since peeps IRL would probably think I'm a kook!