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User Topic: NC? with kids?
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Probably another dumb question....How does one go NC with kids? I mean we still need to coordinate as far as the kids go.

Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Yakamishi,

This is just what I am struggling with as well. Please see my thread "Abbondad Part II," and feel free to PM me.

Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.

Posts: 2066 | Registered: Dec 2012
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Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There is an article in the Healing Library about modified NC for D with kids.

You basically set up very firm boundaries about communication how, when, what, etc.

I recommend that you communication only via email or test. That will provide documentation if you ever need it and prevent you from being pulled into "friendly chit-chat". It allows YOU to decide when to respond and what to respond to. And you only want to respond to questions about kids or finances. Ignore everything else.

Some of the folks here use goggle calendar or my family planner (? I think that is what it is called) to coordinate kids schedules and activities.

Best of luck.

And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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