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14 hours of no contact. I can do this.

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Faithful w/Love posted 5/17/2013 08:23 AM

Man this is hard but I can do this. First 24 hrs is the hardest.

I hate this but I can do this. He tossed me that quick and I need to remember that no matter what my heart says. NC NC NC.
I want to yell and scream but for what. It is over!

Just please be there SI. It will be the first weekend alone in a LONG time. Ill keep busy however.

FaithFool posted 5/17/2013 08:26 AM

It is very difficult but with a good strategy you can pull through.

Been there, that's for sure...

Nothing wrong with yelling it out. Give yourself a set time to do it and then go do something else.

Exercise lots. Walk, ride, gym, yoga, whatever makes you feel good. Knock yourself out with endorphins and you'll sleep better.

Big hugs. You can do it!

devistatedmom posted 5/17/2013 16:25 PM

You can do this!

DON'T take your phone from room to room with you.

DO turn the sound off on it.

Anytime you start to think about him, do 20 push ups, jump on the treadmill, take the dog for a walk, clean something!

Post here anytime you want instead!

You can do it!

nolight posted 5/17/2013 16:49 PM

It's hard but it's worth it so dont give in!! Thing about how hollow you would feel once contact had been made anyway...

Sue1964 posted 5/17/2013 23:55 PM

It is so hard me and mine both having problems not texting each other but now the days apart are getting longer.

jo2love posted 5/17/2013 23:59 PM

(((Faith)))

You can do this. I believe in you. If you want to reach out to him, type what you want to say here instead.

Nature_Girl posted 5/18/2013 00:14 AM

Be the Little Engine That Could. I think I can! I think I can! And before you know it, an hour has gone by, then half the morning, then half the day...

You can do it!

nutmegkitty posted 5/18/2013 08:52 AM

You CAN do this.
We will be here for you. Post here if you have the urge to contact him.

sunshine226 posted 5/18/2013 09:15 AM

NC is tough sometimes, and other times, it might be hours when you realize you havent even thought about contact them

It CAN be done, I broke NC a few times, but i keep trying, I wont give up

Stay busy, do something, anything to take your attention away from making contact

nowiknow23 posted 5/18/2013 10:57 AM

How are you doing, FwL? Sending you tons of strength.

Nature_Girl posted 5/18/2013 16:21 PM

Thinking of you, hoping you're able to find something to keep your mind busy and forward thinking to a new future.

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