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User Topic: We are over because we fight to much
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and he says it is unhealty and he is right.

We have not faught about things like that what we did the other night in months. It is always about the past shit.

But, he was not willing to do MC or talk it out.

BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"

Posts: 2943 | Registered: Aug 2011
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rehashing past hurts/resentments is definitely a relationship killer. Sometimes I think moving on is better than being stuck.


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 1035 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Faithful w/Love)))

I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

Posts: 4841 | Registered: Feb 2008
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, May 17th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

POS and I really never fought about anything, which was good. Unfortunately, we never talked about any problems in any way. That meant everything was swept under the rug. The kids NEVER heard us fight, ever, in all the years we were together. Yet the rugsweeping was just as lethal to our relationship as it meant resentment just kept building over the years (for me). For him, he felt that it was simply okay to ignore the past mistakes, pretend it didn't happen, and move on (to new mistakes). Either extreme is unhealthy in a relationship.

BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
D 2013

~Hakuna matata!~

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