I must look it up. It is absolutely how I'm feeling about this whole thing.
I was miserable in that M for at least the last 5 years. Not good enough to stay, not bad enough to leave was the Ms Motto.
Who knows at what point he started cheating - he was always on the slippery slope. Even if he hadn't cheated it didn't change the fact that he treated me like shit and was and all-round shit husband and father.
I've said here before that cheating was the kindest thing he has done to me in the last 5 years. It freed me at a time when I did not yet have the courage to free myself.