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dmari posted 5/18/2013 19:21 PM

Interesting read so far but what I wanted to share is that I am thankful he left me ~ it has allowed me to "see" the real him and it has allowed me to be the real me.

I also changed my profile description and added IO (Insignificant Other) because he truly is insignificant to me. The only time he comes to my mind is when he is fucking me over on finances (not paying his half of uncovered medical bills, not paying credit card bill, claiming both children for his taxes). Other than that, it's "eh".

It does get better friends!!

Strongmama posted 5/18/2013 19:42 PM

I'll have to read this. I thought about writing a book titled; Thank you for leaving me twice ftard; thank you very much!
Yes it does get better. When you see them for what they really are- it's freeing!

SBB posted 5/18/2013 21:19 PM

I must look it up. It is absolutely how I'm feeling about this whole thing.

I was miserable in that M for at least the last 5 years. Not good enough to stay, not bad enough to leave was the Ms Motto.

Who knows at what point he started cheating - he was always on the slippery slope. Even if he hadn't cheated it didn't change the fact that he treated me like shit and was and all-round shit husband and father.

I've said here before that cheating was the kindest thing he has done to me in the last 5 years. It freed me at a time when I did not yet have the courage to free myself.

Housefulloflove posted 5/19/2013 13:18 PM

I'll have to read that one when I get the chance!

Housefulloflove posted 5/19/2013 13:18 PM

I'll have to read that one when I get the chance!

Jayne Doe posted 5/19/2013 22:13 PM

Interesting!! I'm gonna go look for it :)

Jayne Doe posted 5/19/2013 22:16 PM

Hope this works...

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