Your WH has molested your daughter and she wants to live with him? First of all, she needs to be in therapy...Yesterday. So does your son, because who knows what he has been exposed to with a pervert for a father. Plus, just this alienation crap requires therapy. Second, just no. You pick some nights with the kids and you take them somewhere away from him if you have to. Just get out if he won't ever leave. I'm not sure why you haven't already reported him to the police for whatever he did to your daughter. You should've done hat when you first found out, and now you really need to. Get him away from your kids, and do whatever tge hell you have to, to make that happen. This has nothing to do with divorce or cheating. He is a child molester who has his sites set on your daughter. Get her away from him.
[This message edited by Coraline at 7:09 PM, May 19th (Sunday)]