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FaithFool posted 5/20/2013 16:17 PM

I may have a lunch date next weekend.

Been looking at PoF just for giggles at the wacky local crowd that never changes, and decided to widen the net to the big city next door....

Retired six footer in amazing shape (he's a swimmer), willing to take the ferry over to meet for lunch.

Been flapping about for a couple of hours and finally pressed 'send'.

What the heck, it'll get me out of the house and to one of my favourite restos for the afternoon.

nowiknow23 posted 5/20/2013 16:19 PM

Why not??? Looking forward to hearing how it goes, FaithFool.

Exit Wounds posted 5/20/2013 16:45 PM

FaithFool? You are going to date? Whoo hoo

ENJOY!

Newlease posted 5/20/2013 16:56 PM

NL

Williesmom posted 5/20/2013 18:11 PM

Woohoo! You kids have fun!

jo2love posted 5/20/2013 19:04 PM

Have fun!

caregiver9000 posted 5/20/2013 19:14 PM

Whaaaaaaatt??? WHO, is this and what have you done with FaithFool????

You go girl!

FaithFool posted 5/20/2013 20:24 PM

Well he seems to have the process down correctly. Wants to talk on the phone first to see if we have anything in common other than an allergy to cohabitation.

Going to call him after dinner. Will report back.

I'm not going to call it 'dating'. I'm going to call it 'learning to talk to menz again.'

[This message edited by FaithFool at 8:29 PM, May 20th (Monday)]

FaithFool posted 5/20/2013 22:17 PM

The logistics are too complicated. We both bowed out as neither of us wants long distance.

Smart choice. It was a moment of madness. Now if he decides to retire a littler further west....

hexed posted 5/20/2013 22:18 PM

You almost always put a smile on my face

FaithFool posted 5/20/2013 22:20 PM

Glad to be of service.

I'm kind of relieved. Not QUITE ready to actually follow through yet.

Soon though...

risingfromashes posted 5/21/2013 06:38 AM

Wow!
This is great! Not only the fact that you considered a date (bravery) but knowing when it is not going to work out (wisdom)!!!

You are in such a good place.
Be proud!

FaithFool posted 5/21/2013 08:22 AM

There has definitely been a small shift in the matrix...

InnerLight posted 5/21/2013 09:27 AM

OMG! You almost had a ....date!!!!!

Did that recent dental work involve brain chemistry altering meds?????!!!!!!

Your post made me smile.

FaithFool posted 5/21/2013 14:51 PM

Maybe they implanted a chip or something...

Kajem posted 5/21/2013 17:23 PM

Hey you got ON the pool deck to dip your toe in the water of the dating pool.

More than I am going to do.