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User Topic: Post - Nup and R
♂ 36796
Member # 36796
Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've read about post-nups on SI and I'm wondering if this helps or hurts R?

Do these need to be done by an attorney or can they just be notorized? I supposed it depends on the state

D-Day 1: Feb 1990
D-Day 2: 3 Sep 2012 (3 month EA/2 week PA)
BS 49, fWW 43 (Amibroken)
OP- Police Chief (Age 37)
M 25 Yrs, 3 Kids (17, 14, 11)
I initated the relationship at the Railway Tavern, she tried to end it at Scrap Tavern

Posts: 568 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Delmarva
♀ 37945
Member # 37945
Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did one. I'm a physician, and my WH is a stay at home dad. When I realized id have to pay alimony if we divorced, despite the fact he cheated, I told I'm to sign a post nupt or leave.

I consulted an attorney. I highly recommend that. He told me "It would sting if you divorce, but it is worse when you are married for 20 years or more".

PM me if you want more details.

Posts: 231 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: texas
♂ 23667
Member # 23667
Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

See an attorney. Each state has very specific case law that can affect the validity of the agreement.

I signed a post nup for my wife and would gladly do it again. It helped solidify our recovery.

WH (me)
BS (her)

D-Days April - Oct. 2007 Recovery started Nov. 2007

"Found Myself", I was right there in my shoes all along!
Search for self called off!

Why Repentance Is Necessary? Because Undeserved Mercy Empowers Entitlement/Sin

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