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Member # 25041
Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, May 20th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

to avoid divorce settlement.
My attorney warned me about my exWS fleeing the country and I'm a little concerned. Anybody here deal with that situation?

Posts: 1211 | Registered: Aug 2009
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DOH!  Posted: 12:45 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, FT went Thailand to be with Twat. He came back several times to clean up his mess and sell stuff. We were able to get the divorce final and I did get my settlement.
I was lucky he did have an attorney here so I took full advantage of serving the attorney all the crap I filing to get his ass in gear and get the damn divorce.

It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20489 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
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Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My X fled the country after the D to avoid the IRS, the state CS enforcement, and several creditors. There is very little I can do about it.

And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
♀ 25041
Member # 25041
Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks gma. Our divorce is final but there are financial considerations still outstanding.
Dreamboat, that's my fear too. I think he's going to disappear.

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Fooled Me Twice
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eh, I'd be happy if mine would go back to his home country. I'll give up my CS if he never sees her (DD) again. Perhaps that's just me though:)

[This message edited by Fooled Me Twice at 8:17 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)]

ME: BS 33 (now 34)
HIM: WS 33 (now 35)
OW: 22, howorker (now 24)
July 2007: Porn found on computer along with profiles on dating websites.
DDay: January 16, 2012 - suspicious since Dec 2011
Divorced: June 11, 2013

Posts: 209 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Here and There
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