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cantaccept posted 5/21/2013 09:25 AM

somehow even while we are living together I have to detach.

He is not willing to give me what I need. Will not even try to find out. Keeps blaming my pain on my childhood. That it is not from his betrayal.

I am going to work on me. I will not worry any longer if I am meeting his needs.

It is up to him to take responsibility if he so chooses.

I he chooses not to we are done. I will not just pretend that all is forgiven.

Forgiveness cannot be given without remorse.

heforgotme posted 5/21/2013 09:26 AM

You are completely and totally right.

Many hugs to strong you.

sisoon posted 5/21/2013 14:14 PM

amen, and you ARE strong.

LA44 posted 5/21/2013 17:19 PM

((cantaccept)) This can be your new prayer - Keep saying it!Post it where you can see it everyday!

YOU ARE STRONG!

I read this one this site: You don't need the bus to back over you after its already run you over.

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