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User Topic: I must be strong
♀ 37451
Member # 37451
Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

somehow even while we are living together I have to detach.

He is not willing to give me what I need. Will not even try to find out. Keeps blaming my pain on my childhood. That it is not from his betrayal.

I am going to work on me. I will not worry any longer if I am meeting his needs.

It is up to him to take responsibility if he so chooses.

I he chooses not to we are done. I will not just pretend that all is forgiven.

Forgiveness cannot be given without remorse.

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

Posts: 3324 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
♀ 38391
Member # 38391
Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are completely and totally right.

Many hugs to strong you.

D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

Posts: 1162 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: FL
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

amen, and you ARE strong.

fBH (me) - 66 on d-day, Married 43, together 45 on d-day, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
Most of us know only our own experience. That's not enough data to support a general rule that D, or R, is right in every sitch.

Posts: 16799 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
♀ 38384
Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((cantaccept)) This can be your new prayer - Keep saying it!Post it where you can see it everyday!


I read this one this site: You don't need the bus to back over you after its already run you over.

Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 3439 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
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