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User Topic: Psyco OW
Strydr
♂ 38967
Member # 38967
Stop  Posted: 10:19 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The psycho OW will not stop contacting my BS and my BS can't change her cell because of all the contacts associated. I'm at wits end... The OW is setting us back EVERYTIME she pulls stuff. This time texting a pic of her wearing something of mine.

Please please advice and help. My BS is ignoring her but its killing my BS and any progress we make


"Look up, Get up, and never Give up.."
--Rev. T.D. Jakes (Potter's House) said to Michael Irvin ( Dallas Cowboys) when he was a WS.

Posts: 24 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Why can you not block the OW's number from both of your phones?


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6437 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Why can you not block the OW's number from both of your phones?
x2??????


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 6029 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
20WrongsVs1
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Blocking OW's number wouldn't stop her. There are plenty of services that will send a text message from an alternate source.

Isn't harassment illegal? I hate to suggest you contact OW, but maybe tell her next time, you're getting the police involved. Any other leverage you can use against her? Her SO, family, work?


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
Strydr
♂ 38967
Member # 38967
Default  Posted: 11:34 AM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's in Illinois and we are in Texas... Unfortunately AT&T only offers child blocker and iMessages still get thru. When my BS gets home though I can jailbreak her iPhone and download an app called iblacklist that blocks everything and can send back a customized response like "STOP HARASSING US OR WE WILL CALL THE POLICE AND CONTACT YOUR FATHER (OW is 44 ) IF YOU CONTINUE TO CONTACT US".
I was just trying to stop the next few hours and save us continued grief.

I wish it was as easy as just blocking the number...dang iPhones


"Look up, Get up, and never Give up.."
--Rev. T.D. Jakes (Potter's House) said to Michael Irvin ( Dallas Cowboys) when he was a WS.

Posts: 24 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
Strydr
♂ 38967
Member # 38967
Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, May 21st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did not realize this was a stop sign post I made....

BSs please just PM me if you do have suggestions and thank you for those that did

Bless you all for the support y'all have given me


"Look up, Get up, and never Give up.."
--Rev. T.D. Jakes (Potter's House) said to Michael Irvin ( Dallas Cowboys) when he was a WS.

Posts: 24 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
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