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cali1002 posted 5/21/2013 10:49 AM

My H insists that a very close friendship was never physical. Iím not sure I believe him. Any ideas on how to find out the truth? If I ask he says they were just friends. My story is on my profile. It is a little long, but will provide more details.

somanyyears posted 5/21/2013 12:39 PM


..from your profile, i see a man who has been chasing anything in a skirt, trying to get some on the side..

..and using his position in the workplace to manipulate his co-workers.

..too many instances of 'other' women and he's playng the 'just friends' card to explain it away!!

..i'd call bullshit to his denials..

so sorry you are here..

smy

cali1002 posted 5/21/2013 13:08 PM

Thanks, somany. It seems like I want to believe that there isn't more, but the pieces don't really support that. I don't know. But why should I stay with him if there is more? I don't want to be married to a slim ball. Our kids would be devastated if we split up.

pewpewpew posted 5/21/2013 14:16 PM

They are always "just friends".
Even with solid proof - they try to minimize and go into damage control.

I'm so sorry you have found yourself here.

libertyrocks posted 5/21/2013 15:55 PM

That's what my H said. Just friends. The next week, oh, they had sex once. 3 months later, 5 OW PA's in 2 years. Then, just a month ago, 7OW in 3 years with a LTA of over a year.

Sorry, you're here with us.

avicarswife posted 5/21/2013 20:56 PM

There is always a polygraph. If he is telling the truth I would think he would jump at the opportunity.

If he agrees - make sure you follow through.

OptimisticWife posted 5/22/2013 05:23 AM

My H was claiming "just friends" also. He probably never would have admitted the truth.

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