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cali1002 posted 5/21/2013 10:49 AM

My H insists that a very close friendship was never physical. Iím not sure I believe him. Any ideas on how to find out the truth? If I ask he says they were just friends. My story is on my profile. It is a little long, but will provide more details.

somanyyears posted 5/21/2013 12:39 PM

..from your profile, i see a man who has been chasing anything in a skirt, trying to get some on the side..

..and using his position in the workplace to manipulate his co-workers.

..too many instances of 'other' women and he's playng the 'just friends' card to explain it away!!

..i'd call bullshit to his denials..

so sorry you are here..


cali1002 posted 5/21/2013 13:08 PM

Thanks, somany. It seems like I want to believe that there isn't more, but the pieces don't really support that. I don't know. But why should I stay with him if there is more? I don't want to be married to a slim ball. Our kids would be devastated if we split up.

pewpewpew posted 5/21/2013 14:16 PM

They are always "just friends".
Even with solid proof - they try to minimize and go into damage control.

I'm so sorry you have found yourself here.

libertyrocks posted 5/21/2013 15:55 PM

That's what my H said. Just friends. The next week, oh, they had sex once. 3 months later, 5 OW PA's in 2 years. Then, just a month ago, 7OW in 3 years with a LTA of over a year.

Sorry, you're here with us.

avicarswife posted 5/21/2013 20:56 PM

There is always a polygraph. If he is telling the truth I would think he would jump at the opportunity.

If he agrees - make sure you follow through.

OptimisticWife posted 5/22/2013 05:23 AM

My H was claiming "just friends" also. He probably never would have admitted the truth.

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