Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: Anderson78

Off Topic :
How high does a fever have to be before you stay home from work?

This Topic is Archived
default

 bluelady (original poster member #11061) posted at 12:28 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

I've been dealing with a weird flu virus for a couple of days. Last night my temperature was 101.5. I stayed home today. I just checked again and it has come down to 100.6. I feel better than I did yesterday but I have a wicked headache and I'm pretty weak.

I've heard lots of people say that if you have a fever you should stay home but at what point is a fever a fever? 99? 100?

Me (BS): 35

Divorced

posts: 1501   ·   registered: Jun. 21st, 2006   ·   location: a little bit of everywhere
id 6345789
default

jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 12:37 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

A wicked headache would keep me home, fever or no fever.

I'd say if you're feeling extra crappy, you should probably stay home.

100.6 would keep me home.

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

posts: 26375   ·   registered: Dec. 14th, 2009   ·   location: Michigan
id 6345805
default

Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 12:38 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

Yup; if you have a fever and you're feeling crappy, stay home. The degree of temperature should not come into the equation. Fever means you're fighting off some kind of infection.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
id 6345809
default

Going_Under ( member #11606) posted at 12:43 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

Our schools send kids home with a temperature of 100 or more, and to me that seems reasonable for adults as well.

You aren't going to get better if you push yourself, and you don't want to spread whatever it is you have. Stay home until you have a normal, non-medicated temperature for a full 24 hours.

I hope you feel better soon!

BS 44 (Me)
FWH 47
M 24 years
Three Children ages 22, 18, and 10
D-Day 08/10/2004, 7-Year LTA that ended 4 months before D-Day.

posts: 4558   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2006   ·   location: Pacific Northwest
id 6345813
default

 bluelady (original poster member #11061) posted at 1:46 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

Le sigh. I had a feeling you'd say that. My poor kids have had a sub three days in the last two weeks (two for a conference and one today).

I HATE planning for subs morning of. I rarely take a sick day unless I feel like I'm coming down with something and can prep the day before. Like yesterday after school I prepped sub plans just in case.

I guess that means I'll be up early tomorrow

Me (BS): 35

Divorced

posts: 1501   ·   registered: Jun. 21st, 2006   ·   location: a little bit of everywhere
id 6345911
default

simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 1:52 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

I consider it a fever starting at 100. That's when I give/take meds for it as well. I had job interview not that long ago and I had to try to reschedule it because I woke up with a temp of 102. That sucked!

I hope you feel better soon.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

posts: 6121   ·   registered: Jul. 31st, 2009   ·   location: In the darkest depths of hell!
id 6345926
default

NotDefeatedYet ( member #33642) posted at 1:54 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

Everywhere I've worked, and at my kids' schools, they don't want you to come back until your fever has been gone for at least 24 hours. They consider a fever at 100 and up.

"It's a fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart."

posts: 769   ·   registered: Oct. 17th, 2011   ·   location: Texas
id 6345929
default

jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 1:55 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

Bluelady...

I find having an Emergency Sub Folder prepared and in a conspicuous place in my room saves me a lot of grief if I have to call out sick without warning.

I don't expect my subs to keep going with my lesson plan, so I put in tons of worksheets/busy work that will keep the kids from killing each other that day.

I hope you feel better soon.

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

posts: 26375   ·   registered: Dec. 14th, 2009   ·   location: Michigan
id 6345931
default

purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 2:38 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

We really don't care if you have a fever or not. Doctors don't want people going to work or school if their infectious. Why? Because it leads to more work for the doctors! Please stay home.

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

posts: 3013   ·   registered: Dec. 20th, 2011   ·   location: Here
id 6345989
default

PerpleNerple ( member #3224) posted at 3:24 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

Don't go to work with a fever!! You are contagious

I have a rep amongst my employees, if you are sick and want to work - that is your choice...but if you have a fever - I will MAKE you go home.

As a manager, I would rather you stay home and get better, than come in, half par, and struggle through a day.

I hope you break the fever and feel better soon!

"Unconditional love does not mean unconditional crap absorption"
~Oh, what tangled webs we weave, when first we practice to deceive~ Sir Walter Scott

posts: 1641   ·   registered: Jan. 20th, 2004   ·   location: NOVA
id 6346059
default

hurtbs ( member #10866) posted at 4:40 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

If you feel bad, stay home.

Fever with no meds (no advil or tylenol) 100 degrees.

Don't risk infecting others or getting sicker. I got walking pneumona once because I refused to slow down.

Me - 40 something. WXH DDay 2006, Divorced 2012
WBF DDay #1 9/2022 #2 11/2022
Single

posts: 15762   ·   registered: Jun. 1st, 2006   ·   location: So Cal
id 6346130
default

Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 4:54 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

bluelady I'm sorry you're sick.

Please stay home and get better. Working sick just makes it worse. Rest and get well.


posts: 3615   ·   registered: Oct. 10th, 2012
id 6346142
default

wannabenormal ( member #19772) posted at 5:36 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

I'm sorry you're not feeling well!

For me - I work a 90 minute drive from home, so if I'm at like 98.7, I'm staying put! LOL!



posts: 15096   ·   registered: Jun. 4th, 2008
id 6346163
default

Kalleigh ( member #1214) posted at 3:22 PM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

Usually the rule at school is fever has to be gone for 24hrs, I would think that would be a rule for work also. If you have a fever you are still contagious

I love my husband and kids, but there is something missing, LIKE MAYBE A LIFE!!!!!!!

posts: 6560   ·   registered: Mar. 4th, 2003   ·   location: Wisconsin
id 6346501
default

Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 4:29 PM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013

I get an absurd amount of sick time, so I stay home if I have ANY fever (probably 99 or higher). I HATE when people come to the office sick, because then everyone else catches it! No one wants you in an office when you're sick.

I understand it's different for teachers though. You have a lot more limited time, and it's a lot harder to miss time, because it's not like you can just check in on email a few times and everything will be waiting for you when you're back in.

I *love* JRC's idea of keeping some extra plans around just in case.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

posts: 14469   ·   registered: Jul. 17th, 2011
id 6346626
This Topic is Archived
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20250404a 2002-2025 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy