I will start....we had some fun texts and then made a nooner appt. He had IC and we discussed what he MIGHT want to talk about. Up to him of course (just asked that he not talk about the nooner).
Who's next?
In reality, taking some me time, to help sort out where my head is - it's holding me and US back. Need to find a way to grow some gonads for tomorrow's appointment with the surgeon too.
Sodamnlost - surgery? HUGS to you!
Just wanted to post something that shows us posters in POSITIVE action. No doubt I know I will post something sad/angry at some point!
I am keeping it in the the forefront of my mind that my H was mentally insane and broken during the A so that I can feel compassion for him instead of rage. (See my post)
Does that count?
PA that lasted approx. 2 weeks. OW was a younger but totally screwed up %#@%!
DDay 4-25-12 Reconciling
Lost: I know...I get it. I think the same thing when we are being romantic or even just having a nice family time. I do remember reading in After the Affair, Spring wrote...don't wait until you feel 100% loving to ACT that way - it might never happen!
Our cores are good and strong, people. Believe that!
thats awesome some i need to put on my bathroom mirror .
as for the post
We flirted through text today and showed understanding about the emotional ups and downs we both have throughout the day . he felt down he would txt and tell me and i would do the same and we reminded each other that we choose forever with each other and it makes us both feel better....hes is excited to come home today
I'M ON THE FENCE
I like your style LA44!!
I told my H how much I loved him and after 13 years, confessed it was love at first sight...I told him I appreciate all the big and little things he does and how I"m proud of the MAN he he has become.
Not leaving counts some days right?
Yes. Thanking BH for not leaving. Or booting my sorry butt out.
I went to IC today, came home, told him that I was just not in a great place emotionally right now. I have a lot going on, he listened, we talked about it. This for us is big.
Then he told me had a huge headache that had been bugging him all day, so I gave him a massage to see if it would help. It did.
We agreed that we are in this thing together, for life. We are finally on the same page.
Today was a good day for us in R.
But srsly, we're working as a team on getting our house sold, a place to live, and building a new house. That's a lot of stuff! And I'm very proud of him due to his success with his business and I intend to let him know this when I get home.
I'm going to try to stay awake long enough this evening to rock his world.
I'm with Jana on this one
'nooner'??
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson "She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson
But, yes to sex. I noticed the more we have it, the better I feel and closer I feel to him. Can't wait for tonight! We've been so busy lately.
I also noticed that there is a lot of ahem..."randiness" out there! UK Lady, I am trying to use a British term now! Did I get that right? Being a Canadian gal with our neighbours to the south, I am going to find a way to make everyone happy....eh?
Jana: I hear ya! Allergy season picking up! I use 12 hr Reactine, a herbal supplement called, Aller Plex and homeopathic tablets called, Histamine (or something to that effect) for little flare ups. Fingers crossed!
But seriously SI posters, thanks for sharing!
LA
