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User Topic: Nora caught a break? (don't want to jinx it!)
♀ 37922
Member # 37922
Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It started out to be a rough night...hubby had a choice of working at cOW's bar for 45 minutes near the end of the night (she typically leaves work early so he probably would've avoided her) or cover the bartenders dinner breaks - for 2 hours and in the middle of her shift where she'll most likely be.

He called me to tell me his choice. He chose wrong. I broke down on the phone, he promised he would work the other side of the bar and avoid all contact. I asked why would he choose that shift? And he said he could make an extra $75 to $100 there....I said - good - you might need it for the D lawyer. It was just a vent. But the thought of having to endure this every Friday and Saturday night indefinitely was overwhelming - and I took an Ativan to cope. He texted me throughout and all went well (NC).

When he left that bar, he texted me:

"I was going to wait to tell you this..."

Ugh - what now? I'm thinking to myself...

The next text said:

"but she's TRANSFERRED OUT!!!"

Another waitress told my H that she's now stewarding in the outlet restaurants. They have nothing to do with the floor bars, it's a completely different department - she found out she got the position tonight!!!

It starts in 2-3 weeks...I am sooo relieved!! Just hoping she doesn't embark on any last minute hail Mary fishing attempts!

Is it possible that I'm actually catching a break here?

Me - BW - 44
Him - FWH - 42
Married 16 years
D day - 1/2 truth - July 2012
Full disclosure - August 2012
EA with skanky waitress coworker
3 kids - 14, 16, 21
In R

Posts: 791 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Canada
♀ 30024
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, May 24th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news, Nora.

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 13448 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
♀ 36587
Member # 36587
Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, May 25th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!! Happy for you

Posts: 191 | Registered: Aug 2012
♀ 21183
Member # 21183
Default  Posted: 1:11 AM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy for you - Sure hope the transfer stands!

Me BS 59
WH 58
Married 19 years
D-Day Nov 3, 2005
Child: Adopted Daughter 21 College Student now

I can understand being alone; but I hate being with someone and feeling lonely.

Posts: 6216 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: PA
♀ 36234
Member # 36234
Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YEAHHH! Good things to you forever!

BS Me 57
WS Him 55
Married 30 yrs
DDay 1/28/2012
I have no idea what is going on

Posts: 200 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Virginia
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