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Yakamishi posted 5/25/2013 12:21 PM

"I don't remember". Grrrrrrr. If she never says it again it would be ok.

Any others?

BrokenT posted 5/25/2013 12:31 PM

"I don't know", "it was nothing". But "I don't know" is the one that gets to me!

And I absolutely agree with you on "I can't remember".

I'm sorry. Maybe it'll work out one day.

mesoSTUPID posted 5/25/2013 15:05 PM

I hate the "I can't change/erase what I did." When I hear that, I cringe!

UKlady posted 5/25/2013 15:12 PM

I think "I don't know" as a response is soooo very frustrating as it leaves you totally in limbo. However, I do believe that actually it can be the truth.

One of my biggest struggles is when I've asked, "Where was I, in your head, when you went back and did it again after having told me how much the first time reviled you?"

But I believe, for now, he didn't know. Maybe I was 'compartmentalised' at that time

standinghere posted 5/26/2013 03:00 AM

Yeah, and the worst hing is that my wife really can't remember.

I know that I will never know the full story, because she doesn't even know it.

Took me quite a while to get to that reality.

guarded posted 5/27/2013 08:21 AM

"I don't know" and "I don't remember" are the bane of my existence!

How the hell do you not know when you and McTrash are the only two that DO know...the only two there? Aaargh!

UndecidedinMA posted 5/27/2013 13:13 PM

"It was an accident"

Fro the female perspective:

No running into the back of another car is an accident - shoving your penis in another woman is not!!

[This message edited by UndecidedinMA at 1:13 PM, May 27th (Monday)]