Things have been going great for us. D-day was 3 years ago, we have settled into a nice routine. We have worked hard at R and have a much better M.
With that being said, today just set me way, way back. It suddenly dawned on me that the OW's daughter is in my nephews graduating class, So, first I had to confirm with my sister whether or not they were friends. That was not fun. She verified my nephew knew her but no, they are not friends. I talked to FWH about this and all he said was so what, what if they did show up, what's the big deal. You are prettier than her, smarter than her and a lot classier than her so what's the big deal. I tried to explain that it feels like she will never truly be out of our lives no matter what. I told him all I needed from him was, "I'm sorry. I'm sorry I did this to us. I'm sorry you can't even enjoy your nephew's graduation, I'm sorry." He got so mad and all he could say was I thought you knew how sorry I was after all of the changes I have made.
The whole thing sets me back and ticks me off. I feel like he just dismissed my pain. I know he wants to forget all about his affair but it is not that simple.
Thanks for listening. Looks like a few crappy days are in store for me.Me:BS married 29 yrs.
Time really does heal.
EA D-Day May 2008
PA D-Day May 7,2010 (same A)