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User Topic: The most meaningful thing my fWS says
♂ 36622
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, May 25th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I am sorry I brought him into our life."

That simple sentence holds so much meaning. Its a fairly new statement for her and she has been saying it a lot.

To me it says remorse. To me it says she accepts full responsibility. To me it says she is viewing life as bigger than just self.

I believe in the power of words. A statement like this would never have come out of her mouth without major perspective change. I am so proud of how hard she is working.

BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2859 | Registered: Aug 2012
♀ 38162
Member # 38162
Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, May 25th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's a powerful sentence. The active verb--to bring.

I'm glad too for the growth it shows.

Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13

Posts: 787 | Registered: Jan 2013
♀ 37274
Member # 37274
Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, May 25th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's a good's mine

Thank you for sticking by me through this.

It says that he realizes that sticking by him wasn't easy and that my commitment to him and us means a lot to him. He has said this sentence to me many times.

D-Day Sept. 14/12...R started Dec. 3/12
Together-10 years Married-5 years
Son-13 months (died July 2, 2014)
Son-born Jan. 2015
4 month EA and 4 month EA/PA in 2012 with my "friend"

Posts: 255 | Registered: Oct 2012
♀ 39203
Member # 39203
Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, May 25th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that's wonderful. so much better than the blanket "i'm sorry".. which isn't bad, just doesn't have quite the impact.. i'm happy for the victories of BSs.

ughh i'm torn between desperately wanting to hear these words, and working hard to never care to.

me: BS, early 30's
him: WS, early 30's
2 young kiddos

Posts: 45 | Registered: May 2013
Topic Posts: 4

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