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cuppacoffee (original poster member #39313) posted at 4:35 AM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
What would you recommend as a great first date post d day as a R couple? I want something that keeps us talking. The husband wants us to talk more.
I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you
SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 5:56 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
What about a museum, or an Art show?
What do you want to talk about?
Yourselves or just ralking more in general, getting to know each other better?
Dinner or coffee in a busy location where you can people watch.
Do you guys dance?
A picnic?
What are you guys into????
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:15 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Low key and conducive to reconnecting and conversing from your hearts - walk in a park on a weekday?
Well, that's what I would do. What counts most is what you and your H want to do.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
cuppacoffee (original poster member #39313) posted at 8:26 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Since we have 6 kids we don't really do a lot together other than watching tv/movies. I'd love to go on a date to my fave coffee shop before it closes next month. He would like to go out to dinner or gambling.
I"m just hoping for a good time. We went on a 'date' a few months back and it was horrible. He didn't even talk to me.
I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you
musiclovingmom ( member #38207) posted at 9:33 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
We have 3 kids 5 and under. Dinner alone is always nice. We also love to go dancing. I think our first post DDay date was a night at home. He got a sitter for the kids and we just hung out together.
RunningBlind ( new member #39203) posted at 12:09 AM on Monday, May 27th, 2013
that's great you guys are taking that step.
I"m just hoping for a good time. We went on a 'date' a few months back and it was horrible. He didn't even talk to me.
^^ was this during his A? :(
i agree with the other posters, as long as it's something you guys want to do, and it gives you the chance to reconnect.
me: BS, early 30's
him: WS, early 30's
2 young kiddos
cuppacoffee (original poster member #39313) posted at 12:15 AM on Monday, May 27th, 2013
Yes that date was. Thinking back it might have been around when he first told me about his new BFF. I didn't find out until last week that the had sex twice.
Ugh I want to vomit thinking about it.
I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you
guarded ( member #25364) posted at 2:39 PM on Monday, May 27th, 2013
We needed something to do during the date so less pressure to just talk, which lets us talk more. How about shooting pool or miniature golf?
In R? But how do you know it isn't another pack of lies?
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