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Topic: First post d day date night
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cuppacoffee
♀ 39313
Member # 39313 |  Posted: 10:35 PM, May 25th (Saturday), 2013 |     |
What would you recommend as a great first date post d day as a R couple? I want something that keeps us talking. The husband wants us to talk more.
I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you
Posts: 363 | Registered: May 2013 |
SurprisinglyOkay
♀ 36684
Member # 36684 | | Posted: 11:56 AM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013 | |
What about a museum, or an Art show?
What do you want to talk about?
Yourselves or just ralking more in general, getting to know each other better?
Dinner or coffee in a busy location where you can people watch.
Do you guys dance?
A picnic?
What are you guys into????
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
Posts: 1167 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B |
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240 | | Posted: 12:15 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Low key and conducive to reconnecting and conversing from your hearts - walk in a park on a weekday?
Well, that's what I would do. What counts most is what you and your H want to do.
fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.
Posts: 13978 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois |
cuppacoffee
♀ 39313
Member # 39313 | | Posted: 2:26 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Since we have 6 kids we don't really do a lot together other than watching tv/movies. I'd love to go on a date to my fave coffee shop before it closes next month. He would like to go out to dinner or gambling.
I"m just hoping for a good time. We went on a 'date' a few months back and it was horrible. He didn't even talk to me.
I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you
Posts: 363 | Registered: May 2013 |
musiclovingmom
♀ 38207
Member # 38207 | | Posted: 3:33 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013 | |
We have 3 kids 5 and under. Dinner alone is always nice. We also love to go dancing. I think our first post DDay date was a night at home. He got a sitter for the kids and we just hung out together.
Posts: 1539 | Registered: Jan 2013 |
RunningBlind
♀ 39203
Member # 39203 | | Posted: 6:09 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013 | |
that's great you guys are taking that step.
I"m just hoping for a good time. We went on a 'date' a few months back and it was horrible. He didn't even talk to me.
^^ was this during his A? :(
i agree with the other posters, as long as it's something you guys want to do, and it gives you the chance to reconnect.
me: BS, early 30's
him: WS, early 30's
2 young kiddos
Posts: 45 | Registered: May 2013 |
cuppacoffee
♀ 39313
Member # 39313 | | Posted: 6:15 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Yes that date was. Thinking back it might have been around when he first told me about his new BFF. I didn't find out until last week that the had sex twice.
Ugh I want to vomit thinking about it.
I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you
Posts: 363 | Registered: May 2013 |
guarded
♀ 25364
Member # 25364 | | Posted: 8:39 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013 | |
We needed something to do during the date so less pressure to just talk, which lets us talk more. How about shooting pool or miniature golf?
In R? But how do you know it isn't another pack of lies?
Posts: 541 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: NY |
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