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cuppacoffee posted 5/25/2013 22:35 PM
What would you recommend as a great first date post d day as a R couple? I want something that keeps us talking. The husband wants us to talk more.
SurprisinglyOkay posted 5/26/2013 11:56 AM
What about a museum, or an Art show?
What do you want to talk about?
Yourselves or just ralking more in general, getting to know each other better?
Dinner or coffee in a busy location where you can people watch.
Do you guys dance?
A picnic?
What are you guys into????
sisoon posted 5/26/2013 12:15 PM
Low key and conducive to reconnecting and conversing from your hearts - walk in a park on a weekday?
Well, that's what I would do. What counts most is what you and your H want to do.
cuppacoffee posted 5/26/2013 14:26 PM
Since we have 6 kids we don't really do a lot together other than watching tv/movies. I'd love to go on a date to my fave coffee shop before it closes next month. He would like to go out to dinner or gambling.
I"m just hoping for a good time. We went on a 'date' a few months back and it was horrible. He didn't even talk to me.
musiclovingmom posted 5/26/2013 15:33 PM
We have 3 kids 5 and under. Dinner alone is always nice. We also love to go dancing. I think our first post DDay date was a night at home. He got a sitter for the kids and we just hung out together.
RunningBlind posted 5/26/2013 18:09 PM
that's great you guys are taking that step.
I"m just hoping for a good time. We went on a 'date' a few months back and it was horrible. He didn't even talk to me.
^^ was this during his A? :(
i agree with the other posters, as long as it's something you guys want to do, and it gives you the chance to reconnect.
cuppacoffee posted 5/26/2013 18:15 PM
Yes that date was. Thinking back it might have been around when he first told me about his new BFF. I didn't find out until last week that the had sex twice.
Ugh I want to vomit thinking about it.
guarded posted 5/27/2013 08:39 AM
We needed something to do during the date so less pressure to just talk, which lets us talk more. How about shooting pool or miniature golf?