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User Topic: A moment to remember
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Content  Posted: 10:31 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to stop and smell the roses for a moment...

This morning I shed silent tears because of the involuntary shudders my BH frequently has when we touch. He fights revulsion constantly because of what I did to us. I guess this morning I was being dragged along behind or under the rollercoaster.

Fast forward to this evening...

I was at the sink washing dishes when BH gave me a hug from behind, kissed me on the neck and told me he loves me. I'm a lucky girl.

I'm keeping this moment fresh in my mind for the next dip or plummet.

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 23, 16, 12. 2 dogs.

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Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Those moments are very special early on in R.

Even now, I find it hard to believe we are where we are. I never thought we would get here.

I am happy for you.

Me 46 Him 46 Hardlessons DS 26,24,21
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"And above all things, never think that you're not good enough yourself. A man should never think that. My belief is that in life people will take you at your own reckoning."
- I. Asimov

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Default  Posted: 5:41 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do not just slay your demons, dissect them and find what they've been feeding on.

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Default  Posted: 6:28 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm happy for you.

Madhatter. Separated.

"You must try to generate happiness within yourself. If you aren't happy in one place, chances are you won't be happy anyplace." Ernie Banks

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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like it was a great moment for knight too.

WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the post, knightsbff. I was having a down moment today and your post reminded me of the same moments I had the last few days with my husband. It's good to remember that sad moments are just that, and they don't mean whole sad days if we're able to focus on the good and don't lose hope. I'm happy for you.

Me: WW/MH 30s Him: 40s 1 Kid
LTA, not divorced

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