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User Topic: A moment to remember
knightsbff
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Content  Posted: 10:31 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to stop and smell the roses for a moment...

This morning I shed silent tears because of the involuntary shudders my BH frequently has when we touch. He fights revulsion constantly because of what I did to us. I guess this morning I was being dragged along behind or under the rollercoaster.

Fast forward to this evening...

I was at the sink washing dishes when BH gave me a hug from behind, kissed me on the neck and told me he loves me. I'm a lucky girl.

I'm keeping this moment fresh in my mind for the next dip or plummet.


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1525 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Those moments are very special early on in R.

Even now, I find it hard to believe we are where we are. I never thought we would get here.

I am happy for you.


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18696 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:41 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 6:28 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm happy for you.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


Posts: 2811 | Registered: Oct 2012
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like it was a great moment for knight too.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6103 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
burntashes
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the post, knightsbff. I was having a down moment today and your post reminded me of the same moments I had the last few days with my husband. It's good to remember that sad moments are just that, and they don't mean whole sad days if we're able to focus on the good and don't lose hope. I'm happy for you.


Me: WW/MH 30s Him: 40s 1 Daughter
LTA, not divorced with no R
I confessed PA 6/10. Detailed confession: 9/10. All the truth 9/11.

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