My SIL has jumped in, trying to help, stating that she went thru an infidelity crisis with her husband and determined he was a sex addict. They got help from God. The WH is recovering and they are working it out.
i am agnostic and have always been suspect of how her family puts everything in God's hands.
She seems to be telling me that i should trust God to make things right and he will. She has sent me a couple religious books about how to heal after sexual betrayal, She also sent my WH a book on sexual idolitry.
i do think my WH has an addiction but I don't think he is ready to face it head on. I gave him ample opportunity to address his issues befoere DD3.
i am able to forgive him because I think he has a problem. Not because of God but because I love him and want him to be happy.
i also want myself to be happy and healthy and can't just turn this over to God. i really can't take another DD. Divorcing this man, who has many admirable qualities, is the hardest thing I've ever done. I wish I could have some help from God but I am going to have to move on.