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Reconciliation :
Trigger Free Day

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 AFrayedKnot (original poster member #36622) posted at 1:37 PM on Monday, May 27th, 2013

Almost 18 months ago to the day was Dday. A year ago I could barely leave the house. All day was one giant panic attack.

Yesterday I think I had my first Trigger Free Day.

As I was laying in bed last night I was inventorying my feelings throughout the day. I could not think of one moment that I was in a rut. I'm sure there were passing thoughts but none that invoked any negative feelings.

I was grateful for the present. I was hopeful for the future. I was in the moment. I was free.

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 1:51 PM on Monday, May 27th, 2013

Awesome mate! Glad to hear that.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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OptimisticWife ( member #36587) posted at 2:43 PM on Monday, May 27th, 2013

Hope you have many more good days ahead

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sailorgirl ( member #38162) posted at 10:40 PM on Monday, May 27th, 2013

That rocks! I can hardly imagine it, but you've given me hope.

Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13
Reconcilling

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soveryweary ( member #32265) posted at 11:56 PM on Monday, May 27th, 2013

Wow. So happy for you.

Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.

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