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Topic: Divorce Time !!

ninebark
♀ 24534
Member # 24534

Posted: 11:16 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013

Well I went ahead and made an appointment with my lawyer to get the divorce started :)

It should not take long as we have a legal separation agreement from two years ago and nothing has changed.

My mother asked me if I wanted a divorce because it has been two years since we separated. I SO DO!! lol. I just finally now have the money to do it.

A chapter of my life is closing. It feels pretty good.

BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada

nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226

Posted: 9:11 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013

You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

Posts: 28199 | Registered: Aug 2011

tabitha95
♀ 22033
Member # 22033

Posted: 12:26 AM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013

You should feel good. You are taking charge of your future.

I'm the kind of person who wants to check things off my list. The 6 months I had to wait for our D to be final seemed like forever. I couldn't imagine 2 years.

BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3251 | Registered: Dec 2008

lostmommy
♀ 33440
Member # 33440

Posted: 10:32 AM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013

Congratulations! Hopefully it's smooth and quick!

Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY

newnormal
♀ 21925
Member # 21925

Posted: 9:49 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013

Love your name. Its my favorite landscape element.

BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo

Posts: 1033 | Registered: Dec 2008

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