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User Topic: Should xWS take our children to a birthday party?
dindy
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Default  Posted: 3:03 AM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So my kids have been invited to a birthday party that they attend every year. xWS has often taken them because I had to work. The thing is, all of the patents there have been my friends since before my ex and I got together and I know they don't think much of him now. It's on a Sunday when he has the children anyway. I would have them back early to take them but I'm on a course that day. It would be a shame for them to miss out.
Any thoughts?

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ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 4:06 AM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you trust him and think he's responsible, then yes. Otherwise, no.


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 4:17 AM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It sounds like you're afraid the X might be humiliated; that might not be a bad thing Do you think he would behave badly and embarrass your kids? If not, I say he takes them and sucks it up.


Hallelujah! Holy Shit! Where's the tylenol?

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011


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dindy
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Default  Posted: 5:04 AM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes I was thinking he will just have to suck it up! :) I was thinking more about my friends feeling awkward. I've let him know now so he is taking them.

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dindy
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Default  Posted: 6:43 AM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I also reckon that he will make some excuse not to take them as he is a massive, spineless coward. I'm sure his mummy would be happy to hold his hand though and tell him what a special boy he is!

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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unless he is a danger to the kids, his relationship with them is his business.

He fired you from handling the fallout of his choices.


Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

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