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Should xWS take our children to a birthday party?

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dindy posted 5/28/2013 03:03 AM

So my kids have been invited to a birthday party that they attend every year. xWS has often taken them because I had to work. The thing is, all of the patents there have been my friends since before my ex and I got together and I know they don't think much of him now. It's on a Sunday when he has the children anyway. I would have them back early to take them but I'm on a course that day. It would be a shame for them to miss out.
Any thoughts?

ArkLaMiss posted 5/28/2013 04:06 AM

If you trust him and think he's responsible, then yes. Otherwise, no.

Sad in AZ posted 5/28/2013 04:17 AM

It sounds like you're afraid the X might be humiliated; that might not be a bad thing Do you think he would behave badly and embarrass your kids? If not, I say he takes them and sucks it up.

dindy posted 5/28/2013 05:04 AM

Yes I was thinking he will just have to suck it up! :) I was thinking more about my friends feeling awkward. I've let him know now so he is taking them.

dindy posted 5/28/2013 06:43 AM

I also reckon that he will make some excuse not to take them as he is a massive, spineless coward. I'm sure his mummy would be happy to hold his hand though and tell him what a special boy he is!

Chrysalis123 posted 5/28/2013 08:11 AM

Unless he is a danger to the kids, his relationship with them is his business.

He fired you from handling the fallout of his choices.

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