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User Topic: he has to take my good name, too?
♀ 33488
Member # 33488
Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi again, been away for a while getting settled into my new digs - Hallelujah!

First mediation meeting today. It was ok, but as he talked, I realized YET AGAIN why we were here. His sense of entitlement has only grown stronger in the almost two years since D-day.

Then I got a message from my daughter who ran into someone who knows my STBX's business partner. Apparently the business partner told him that "I" was the one who had cheated on STBX!

Gee - wonder where he came up with THAT misinformation??Trying so hard not to be livid. My reputation is important to me, and there is no way to fix this

True remorse isn't followed by a "but".

Posts: 1809 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Alberta
♀ 38378
Member # 38378
Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry, TrebleClef.

A simmilar thing happened to me, where some neighbors had been in touch with Perv when he was caught on the web on dating sites and because of all their crazy "information", strung it together that it was me on the dating sites!

I also learned in a most uncomfortable way that some WS accuse a BS of what it is they did/do. It deflects attention away and onto the BS and is lousy.

Yes, Perv is feeling seriously entitled, justified and all of that. He feels he "put in his time" and is all done.

As he becomes "free-er", or as D becomes more finalized, that sense of entitlement grows and any thing he does for DD adds fuel to it.

Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

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