I'm sorry, TrebleClef.
A simmilar thing happened to me, where some neighbors had been in touch with Perv when he was caught on the web on dating sites and because of all their crazy "information", strung it together that it was me on the dating sites!
I also learned in a most uncomfortable way that some WS accuse a BS of what it is they did/do. It deflects attention away and onto the BS and is lousy.
Yes, Perv is feeling seriously entitled, justified and all of that. He feels he "put in his time" and is all done.
As he becomes "free-er", or as D becomes more finalized, that sense of entitlement grows and any thing he does for DD adds fuel to it.
You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.