Apparently Perv has filed a "counter claim" and I am waiting to hear from L what it is about.
I wanted to ask any of you the same thing, or any ideas for how such things work and what they mean?
I am rambling now but also wonder if it is affecting his job searching, because any information about him is very different, where mine is all the same, just my street and house number and so on. No, I don't go looking anymore at long last, I just wonder from time to time and think it must catch up with a person eventually?
He was also having some things that said different years he was born and would even have different glasses or appearance. I would think at some point these things would catch up with a person, esp. with regard to employment search, as I said?
It still feels really surreal, like something that should only be on tv or down the street, but is actually in our house...does anyone else ever feel that way?
Also, he is not submitting some of the papers and I wonder how long it may be traditional to wait, though understand it probably differs state to state. I have heard that this is a tactic his L uses for a variety of reasons, largely to agitate the "other side", and get the "other side" to spend more money, so I'm working at patience and pretending it doesn't bother me.
The consensus of very few people I have asked is that he is attempting to hide something. Well, that would be OW!, and money/assets he doesn't want to say he has?
And it's a curious thing, because he made no secret of the town OW and tribe reside in, but now is going to great length to hide, giving other paces or nothing for an address.
I wondered if others on SI have experience with this and if it just went by or how much it matters? I myself don't want to know those things and they are triggers, but I was surprised it would be allowed for such things as court and law.
Thanks for any thoughts and reading my ramble. Ashland 13
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