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User Topic: tmi-----How much I've changed.
♀ 34678
Member # 34678
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was thinking today how far I have come since DDAY. Thank you to all SI'ers.

I was so intimidated that I went to a counselor to ask if it is NORMAL for a H to ask his wife to blow kisses to other women in cars, if all husbands try to get their wives in bed w other women,is all men go to topless bars when their wives are pregnant, if I was allowed to take my children to counseling while separated from my wh.

List goes on.

Gees, how did I get that low?

Anyway, I finally realize I don't need XWH. He is a loser, and I am the winner in this D and new beginning!

Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2813 | Registered: Jan 2012
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Growth is my favorite!

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14208 | Registered: Jul 2011
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((homewrecked))))) Yay!

You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
- The Doctor

Posts: 32563 | Registered: Aug 2011
♀ 31468
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It gradually just gets better and better - so happy for you homewrecked!

Me: BW-45
Him: XWH-45

Status: D 2011

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling

Posts: 5016 | Registered: Mar 2011
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