I was thinking today how far I have come since DDAY. Thank you to all SI'ers.
I was so intimidated that I went to a counselor to ask if it is NORMAL for a H to ask his wife to blow kisses to other women in cars, if all husbands try to get their wives in bed w other women,is all men go to topless bars when their wives are pregnant, if I was allowed to take my children to counseling while separated from my wh.
List goes on.
Gees, how did I get that low?
Anyway, I finally realize I don't need XWH. He is a loser, and I am the winner in this D and new beginning!Keep Calm and Happy On!
me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day