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User Topic: tmi-----How much I've changed.
♀ 34678
Member # 34678
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was thinking today how far I have come since DDAY. Thank you to all SI'ers.

I was so intimidated that I went to a counselor to ask if it is NORMAL for a H to ask his wife to blow kisses to other women in cars, if all husbands try to get their wives in bed w other women,is all men go to topless bars when their wives are pregnant, if I was allowed to take my children to counseling while separated from my wh.

List goes on.

Gees, how did I get that low?

Anyway, I finally realize I don't need XWH. He is a loser, and I am the winner in this D and new beginning!

Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2874 | Registered: Jan 2012
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Growth is my favorite!

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14230 | Registered: Jul 2011
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((homewrecked))))) Yay!

You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown

Posts: 33467 | Registered: Aug 2011
♀ 31468
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, May 28th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It gradually just gets better and better - so happy for you homewrecked!

Me: BW-45
Him: XWH-45

Status: D 2011

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling

Posts: 5082 | Registered: Mar 2011
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