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Why does WH not file?
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stungbytravel posted 5/28/2013 23:32 PM
Will someone remind me why WH won't leave?
1)He is still seeing OW.
2)He isn't happy at home.
3)He isn't trying in the marriage.
4) I have asked him to move out but he won't.
5)he hardly interacts with me and often acts like I did something wrong
6) he has been divorced before
7) there are no religious or cultural reasons
8) we do not have kids together.
Ok, so maybe he wants the house. Needs me to help with his daughter
Why else? Why doesn't he just file for divorce? I just don't understand. As I have posted elsewhere, I am struggling pulling the plug but I think part of it is because I cling to the hope that since he hasn't filed there is a chance.
gonnabe2016 posted 5/28/2013 23:34 PM
Because he doesn't want to look like the bad guy....
movingforward13 posted 5/29/2013 08:19 AM
Nothing is guaranteed and I think your wayward understands that and so just in case if his fairy tale world falls apart with the OW, then he can always run back home. He is on the fence. You need to file and knock him off. Stop having hope and start protecting yourself unless you are content with sharing your husband. He doesn't love you honey.